Hey Gorgeous,
So, if you never read my blog before and you just happen to bump into this, well your welcome and am glad you took time out to read this. For some of you that might be wondering, do young people really go through heartbreak? Well, If that happens to be your thought process, then let me ask you to fast forward or maybe slowly rewind to when you felt hurt by someone you really cared out. For the purpose of this post, I will be focusing on the opposite sex and hmmm this could be the first boy crush that ended up so bad and got you feeling really sad.
How about communication on social media about dating and heartbreaks, this does have a major effect on young girls and its alarming, for some the peer-pressure is unbearable. Well, I was heartbroken when I was young because I had no standards as to whom I dated or understood the purpose of dating. I didn’t love my self, lacked confidence and would have never admitted I had hidden daddy issues. If I didn’t have a boyfriend, then the fear of people judging me was a problem.
Definitely not all young girls will experience a heartbreak, but for those that will or have, it’s important we provide them with information that empowers them to be whole and confident in who they are. Let’s not be judgemental when they have questions or open up about their current situation. This openness and honesty will keep them from making really bad decisions and help break the circle of getting hurt in relationships. So, yes young people do get heartbroken and some do experience physical abuse in the process. Let’s not ignore their feelings and support if we can, by sharing our own personal experiences, and how we were able to break free from hurtful circles.
Xoxo,
bbb empower
Love love love this piece, same thing you mentioned I had no standards as to the type of man I should date and would often prioritise his needs. I would often do things and try to look perfect just so he could accept me and in the end When things didn’t go well, we drifted apart I felt heartbroken but the twist was I was disappointed in myself and the choices I made and realised I’d let myself down. It took me years down the line before I realised that I am a gem I deserve better and want to be treated with respect and never to lower my standards regardless of my age or circumstance.
Hi beautiful, thanks for sharing and I am sure someone else will read your comment and learn from this. I am glad we understand better, because for me sometimes the thought of why did I date that guy just makes me wonder lol. But anyway onto the best the future has to bring for us all.