Hi beautiful people,
So can guys tell when a girl is desperate for a relationship? Well based on my experience and mistakes that I have made, I will say yes and am going to give you some signs to take note off.
- You’re not in a relationship with him but you are consistently calling him and leaving miss calls on his phone. He replies your call but at his convenience.
- You asked him if you both are in a relationship but he tells you it’s up to you to define the relationship.
- You are in a relationship with him but he hardly comes around to visit you in an open space where people can see you both together instead, he prefers you coming around
- You travel far and wide to visit him and he lodges you in a hotel and comes to see you at his convenience and girl you know what’s next SEX.
- Your happiness in the relationship is based on what you do for him e.g sex, cook, clean, gifts, money or citizenship, etc.
- Your consistently initiating that he speaks to your friends and family.
- You go out of your way to please him and you can feel that he is not doing the same in return.
- You don’t feel secure in the relationship, your instinct can tell your not the only girl but still, you put up with the relationship to keep him.
- He abuses you physically, mentally and emotionally but you keep giving him another chance hoping he will change.
- He cheats on you and you blame your self for his mistakes.
- You find your self being insecure and losing the confident you used to have in yourself before you met him.
- You want to stay celibate or you choose not to have sex in the relationship but he lures you into it out of your choice just to make him stay.
Girl this used to be me and this is because people can read a person that is vulnerable. So they can tell if one is desperately in need of a companion, love, and attention. Especially if one has experienced a sense of rejection it’s possible that one will grave for acceptance.
It’s never too late to sit back and reflect on the signs that may trigger a person that one may be desperate for a relationship. it’s time to focus on loving yourself first.
xoxo,
bbbempower