Been confident is one I have struggled with especially in the past. But gradually I began to understand that being confident is a choice we make for ourselves, and the reward is endless. It’s funny how been confident and dependent on someone else is easier than been confident in oneself. It’s important we evaluate ourselves and question, is our confidence based on humans.
This might sound awkward but do you know that without realising our actions we sometimes put our confidence in social media. And this is can range from the number of likes or attention we get from followers as a source of our reassurance. The number of likes or followers is not the problem, the motive behind the likes and followers is the problem. However, for some confidence is dependent on one’s achievements or how one feels physically, emotional or mentally each day which may also vary.
While putting your confidence in these are temporary, we need an assurance of whom our confidence can be put upon. No wonder confidence is a personality trait that can be rare to find in an individual. Our confidence should only be dependent on God the creator of man and not man. Our shield and the lifter of our head ”Psalm 3vs 3”.
I ask myself why have I struggled with been confident, then I realised that I made man determine the level of my confidence. I have associated my confidence towards what people think or say about me which should not be. For me, it was high time I released myself and put my confidence in God who created me. For if I seek Him and work in His Path I will find confidence, which He originally assigned to me his child.
So are you ready to regain your confidence back, together we can do this.
Let’s trust and put our confidence in God.
xoxo,
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