I am back with the part 2 of this intriguing story. So let’s get straight into their conversation, the guys asked her age and she says she is 17, well I guessed I was close to getting her age right. Then they asked her if she smokes and even more interesting, she stabs her friend at her back when these guys asked if she knew a particular girl. Then she says yes she’s my friend but I am going to be honest, she’s not pretty and the guys were shocked by her statement. And am thinking to myself, why do some girls snitch on another girlfriend in the presence of boys that might not even care about what their saying. As a friend, you are to stand by her not crush her down in front of other people.
I observed that most of the conversations were about boys, relationships and lesbianism. Then guess what, she made that move. She moves from her seat to where the guys were seated and she starts showing them her pictures on her phone. She then shows off one of her girlfriend picture which she decided to match make with one of the guys. Who says wow am just 15 years and am thinking, this guy got some brains. Then another striking act she performed was when she showed them a baby’s picture and said it was hers and one of the guys question to her was, do you have a baby does that mean you had the baby at 15 years. Then he asked her why and some other guy says well it happens.
She then says it was a joke that the baby is her nephew’s. What amazed me was her joking about having a baby like it’s no big deal at that age, which is so scary for me. Although I won’t be judgemental because I totally understand that’s her understanding and as humans, we sometimes act based on our understanding of certain situations. I have been in a position where I definitely have made mistakes based on my understanding. But as I listen to another girl who’s might be going through some paths I went through in life as a youth, hurts me so bad. But you know what was so real one of the guys says his mum will hit him, even him as a guy understood the concept of why would he want a baby at that age.
The purpose of me writing this is to show that some of us have misconceptions about what relationships and sex are about. It’s time for us to get real and talk about these matters so going forward we can make healthy decisions. Don’t get me wrong some girls do make great decisions when it comes to such situations. So I suggest why don’t we come together and teach others what we have learnt, so that many can be saved from dreadful life stories. Which can occur from random mistakes and lack of knowledge and understanding.
Girl’s let’s grow strong…..
xoxo
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