Your identity is what defines you. Your identity is your uniqueness. Your identity is you. Your identity is who you are, even when others won’t accept you. However, you start losing your identity when you start seeking for whom to accept you, you begin to pretend to be who you’re not. Attention becomes a drug that you can’t do without. But deep inside of you, you miss that person within you.
In some case the attention dose becomes so bad that it’s all you live on and with a matter of time you lose yourself. Then your true self is buried deep down inside of you and you can’t find yourself.
So how can you get your identity back, first you need to be real to yourself and forget what people will think about you. If you can pass through this stage honestly then you are on the right part. Yes it might be painful, you might have to lose some friends and drop some habits but you are on your way to been whole again. Then gradually you will have to start loving who you truly are. When you begin to love your real self then people who truly love you will begin to love and accept who you are. My secret to finding great friends is been who you truly are and allowing them to accept you as you are. Then you can say yes these are my real friends and you don’t have to put on a show for acceptance.
Your identity is who you are and been yourself means freedom. Your identity is not in your friends or celebrities but your identity is in the one who created you. Your identity is in Christ Jesus.